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Parents and guardians of college-bound students are more involved than ever in choosing the right school鈥攁nd that鈥檚 what their children want.

By Robert Alexander, the dean of undergraduate admissions, financial aid, and enrollment management for Arts, Sciences & Engineering, 人妻少妇专区.

A of 2,300 parents by consulting firm EAB found that three out of four parents want direct communications from colleges. Also, 48 percent of students named parents or guardians among their five most trusted sources of information on choosing a college鈥攗p 11 percent from 2020. These trends have been steadily increasing over the past two decades, so this clearly isn鈥檛 a fad.

Of course, parents and guardians want to be involved. The college admissions process centers on parents鈥� two most important assets: their children and their money.

But how can parents engage in a helpful way while still allowing their child to know they control the biggest decision in their young lives?

At the 人妻少妇专区, we鈥檝e recognized this trend of increasing parent engagement and have attempted to communicate directly with the parents and families of prospective students. While the student should take the lead in researching college options, preparing their application materials, and certainly writing their own college application essay, parents can support and encourage their kids throughout the college admissions process.

If you feel like you鈥檙e constantly bothering your child about college stuff, set a weekly time to talk about college so they won鈥檛 feel nagged about it during the rest of your time together.

Ask your child about their interests鈥攁cademically as well as outside of classes鈥攁nd plan college visits close to home. Even if those schools aren鈥檛 top choices, touring nearby colleges of varying sizes and types will offer a better sense of what questions to ask and what to look for when touring schools at the top of their list. Parents can bring needed perspective by raising issues their kids might not be thinking about, such as:

• 人妻少妇专区 safety. Ask how the college or university keeps the campus safe, both in terms of security and health protocols. Don鈥檛 just talk to staff, ask students. Every college in the country is required by law to publish .
• Affording college. Perhaps the most anxiety-inducing and confusing element is determining how much a particular college might cost, since there can be a gap between the sticker price and the net cost after financial aid. Colleges are required to have net price calculators on their websites. The more accurate information you type in (about family income, assets, number of children in college, and your student鈥檚 academic performance), the more accurate estimate you鈥檒l receive. Once your student is a high school senior, help them file the FAFSA to apply for federal and institutional financial aid, and follow other institution-specific instructions to apply for all possible aid. FAFSA forms should be submitted by the time students submit their college application.
• Outcomes. Beyond a world-class faculty, an array of academic programs, and modern facilities, ask how a college hones its students鈥� skills to prepare them for lives and careers after graduation. Inquire about career center resources. You can even request data on outcomes like graduate and professional school admission rates and income ten years post-graduation. Find social networks of alumni and parents of current students online, such as Rochester鈥檚 Meliora Collective, which can be a great resource for questions and answers.

When it鈥檚 time to start filling out applications as part of the college admissions process, ask your child to consider what makes them an interesting person. Remember, colleges aren鈥檛 looking for a single perfect archetype student, but rather a diverse array of students who are interesting in different ways. Helping your student see themselves from your perspective might provide a clearer sense of the story they want to tell in their essay or short answer responses, in how they determine which teachers they ask to write recommendation letters, and in topics they raise during an admissions interview.

It鈥檚 also important to keep how you communicate in perspective. What might feel like a reasonable suggestion from you could be interpreted as an attempt to take over the process. Here are a few do鈥檚 and don鈥檛s to keep in mind.

• Do keep an open mind and collect solid information from credible sources. Trusted sources will never charge you for advice. They typically include websites that end in .edu or .gov, high school counselors, and nonprofit entities with websites ending in .org such as the College Board and the National Association for College Admission Counseling (NACAC).
• Do focus on your student鈥檚 growth and development, not on opportunities to fill up pages on a resume with activities you think colleges want to see.
• Don鈥檛 worry about a magic number of schools to look at or apply to. Everyone鈥檚 different.
• Don鈥檛 add pressure or anxiety about getting in to the 鈥渞ight schools.鈥� This is an exciting time for discovery and self-actualization in your child鈥檚 life.
• Do remember that the 鈥渂est fit鈥� school for any particular student will offer the right combination of academic programs, student life, and experiential opportunities, such as community engagement, research, and studying abroad.

The 人妻少妇专区鈥檚 created an online guide for parents and students called , designed to be a roadmap to success. It provides a clear guide for pursuing an education at a selective college or university.

Remember, college admission isn鈥檛 a prize to be won, but a match to made. Ultimately, where students go will be less important than what they do to get the most out of their college experience.

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